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Saturday, July 14, 2018

30 During 30: The Officially Thirty Update

It's happened - I am officially 30 years old. (Thirty, flirty, and thriving to be precise.) I had the best birthday - my Mom took me on a surprise trip to Aspen, CO, where we:

  • Ate delicious food
  • Shopped 'til we dropped
  • Hiked multiple local sites (including the Ute Trail and Maroon Bells)
  • Went Whitewater Rafting (SO FUN Y'ALL)
  • SUMMITED A 14ER!
Now that I'm actually 30, and now that I've accomplished some more on my #30Before30 #30During30 List, I figured I'd provide a quick update so y'all can see how I'm doing! 

Realistically speaking, I don't think I'll get to everything on this list, and honestly, some of my priorities have changed in the 2 years since I wrote this list. But it's such a nice tracker of all the wonderful blessings I have in my life - family, friends, travel, and amazing experiences.

Original List Here
First Update Here

Cassidy's 30 During 30 List: The Officially Thirty Update

ACCOMPLISHED: 15/30
1. Travel to London - Completed Summer '17. To date, the BEST FREAKING TRIP OF MY LIFE.
3. Visit a state I’ve never been to before - Completed June '18. I traveled to Boise, ID this summer to marry one of my best friends, my grad school roommate Ashlie, and her lovely husband Chris. SUCH a fun trip, and I may or may not have fallen in love with Boise!
4. Take an off-the-grid (NO EMAIL) vacation - Completed Summer '17 (my Europe trip).
6. Hike a 14er - Completed July '18! This one wasn't planned, but was a wonderful happenstance - while on my 30th birthday trip to Aspen, my Mom met a random fellow traveler at our hotel who had summited several 14ers, and who let her know that one of the easiest ones, Mount Bierstadt, was on the way back to Denver from Aspen. So Mom and I dedicated a day (it took us 7 hours to hike the 7-mile round trip) to summiting this 14,065' peak. It's one of the hardest things I've ever done - I got heat exhaustion on the way down - but dang if it wasn't one of the COOLEST THINGS I'VE EVER DONE TOO!
8. Backpack on the Appalachian Trail - Completed Summer '17 (day-hiked 2 sections near Bland, VA with my mom!)
9. Plan an amazing 30th Birthday Celebration/Trip - Completed July '18. I ended up having less control over this one - as mentioned before, my Mom took me on a surprise trip to Aspen, CO! I knew we were going on a trip, but not the destination. Mom dropped a couple of (very obscure) hints in the month prior, but I didn't find out until the morning of that we were off to Aspen (where the beer flows like wine and where the beautiful women instinctively flock like the salmon of Capistrano). We had such a good time!
10. Pay off half of total principal student loan balance - This is basically done (as of August '18), so I'm calling it a win. As of next month, I will be halfway done paying off my principal loan balance! AND, to make it even sweeter, I am currently DONE with payments to one of the three companies which hold my loans. The weight is slowly lifting!
12. Run a half-marathon - Completed x2! March '17 (Skidaway Island Half) & November '17 (Outer Banks Southern Fried Half)
16. Schedule regular doctor/dentist check-ups - Completed December '17 - Doctor. Dentist. Optometrist. AND counselor. I adulted so hard, y'all.
17. Complete a Whole 30/28-day Paleo (or similar) Challenge - Completed with great success as of February '18. I'll be starting another one in mid-August, to get back on track for the school year (and to look cute before my brother's wedding!).
18. Learn how to water-ski - Completed July '18. Okay, this one is cheating, but it's my list, so I don't care. I am changing this one, because I don't realistically think I will have a chance to learn how to water-ski in the next year. But you know what I have done TWICE this year? Go whitewater rafting - once at the U.S. National Whitewater Center here in Charlotte, and once on my birthday in Colorado. So even though it's not exactly the same thing (ok fine, it's nowhere close to the same thing), I'm still gonna mark this one as completed. (My list, my rules.)
19. Try 30 new recipes - Completed during Whole 30 as of February '18.
20. Learn calligraphy - Completed August '17; I took a hand-lettering class locally. SO MUCH FUN.
28. Volunteer with Girls on the Run - Completed as of May '18. I finally got to sign up to be a 5K volunteer, and LOVED getting to cheer on all the girls as they completed their race. It was so thrilling to watch a giant group of girls feel empowered and have fun while being healthy. I'll definitely keep volunteering at the biannual races here in Charlotte!
29. Solidify & stay constant with volunteering role(s) with Gamma Phi Beta - Currently completed - I've finally taken my role down to just one: President of our Charlotte Alumnae Chapter. Although I still want to accomplish so much more in the role, we've had a few social events this year, and I have a wonderful group of local sisters who are engaged and excited to network with each other. It feels good to have nailed this one down.


IN PROGRESS/CONFIRMED TO HAPPEN: 1/30
25. See Beyonce in concert (if she tours) - As you may or may not know, The Carters are currently on their On the Run II Tour, and EMILY JOYNTON AND I ARE SEEING THE QUEEN ON JULY 30 IN PHILADELPHIA! Words CANNOT express how psyched I am for this show (and visiting dear Emily, of course - love you, girl).


TOTAL: 16/30 Over halfway there, y'all!

Tuesday, January 5, 2016

Focus Downhill, or, Lessons I Learned from Skiing

This Christmas, for the first time EVER, my immediate family decided to play rebel and do our own individual family vacation. We talked throughout 2015 about how nice it would be to spend some quality time together, just the four of us, and so my awesome parents planned us a trip to Killington, Vermont.

For those of you who aren't familiar, Killington is a beautiful resort nestled in the picturesque Green Mountains of Vermont. It has long been known in skiing circles as one of the premiere ski destinations, and they pride themselves on having the longest season of any ski resort. (Irony of all ironies, it had not snowed yet this season while we were there, so sadly, many of their runs were closed. But we still had an AWESOME time.)

I myself have never skied before in my LIFE, so I knew this was going to be an interesting trip. I was reflecting this morning on some of the things that I managed to pick up while on the mountains, and so I thought I'd share these insights with a broader audience.

The not-so-snowy-or-Green Mountains


Focus Downhill, OR, Lessons I Learned From Skiing

1. Set yourself up with the right equipment.
Almost as soon as we checked into Killington, we sought out the equipment rental shop. (Unfortunately it was closed for the evening when we arrived, but we went FIRST THING the next morning, before we skied.) Before you ever set foot on a mountain, you need to make sure that you're set up with the right equipment. If your boots are ill-fitting, or your poles are too long or too short, or your skis are too long, you will find the journey ahead VERY difficult.

In skiing, as in life, preparation is everything. You have to have the right tools to help you out before you can start the work ahead.

2. Read the slope before you slide down it.
Like I said, I had never skied before we went on this trip. I've skated before - inline roller blades and ice skating - and knew that the basics would apply, but only marginally. So, wisely, my parents signed me (and themselves) up for ski lessons on our first day. It's not impossible to ski without lessons, but it is very difficult.

Keith was our intrepid instructor, and one of his very first lessons to us was how to put on skis. Apparently, you have to read the slope that you're on when you are laying your skis down, and place them perpendicular to the slope. Otherwise, your skis will quickly slide away from you, and you'll look like an idiot chasing your skis downhill. (Plus, it's VERY difficult to run in ski boots.)

This makes sense if you think about it - you need to read your surroundings before you jump in. You need to learn which way is downhill (and which way is up) before you endeavor to ski on your merry way. In skiing, as in life, awareness of your surroundings is critical.

3. Focus downhill.
This is probably my favorite lesson I picked up on our ski trip. As Keith was teaching us the basics on our first day, he made sure to emphasize the goal of keeping your torso and head pointed down the hill at all times. If you look at your feet too much, or focus too short-sightedly at the slope just ahead of you, you can lose direction and momentum. You could also run over someone - the corollary to this lesson, as my brother sagely stated, is, "Pay attention to the skiers in front of you. Ignore the skiers behind you."

In skiing, as in life, it can be unhealthy for you to focus too much on the short-term, or the past. In order to be truly successful, you've GOT to think about the future. Even though it's tempting to focus on the here-and-now, ultimately, thinking about what's ahead will better guide your current steps. You don't have to think ALL the way to the end, but focusing on something further in front of you will make your path more smooth.

4. Don't be afraid to take risks.
On the first day, my parents and I stuck to the bunny slope in order to work on our basic skiing skills. The next day, though, it was important to me to branch out, to challenge myself. My dad and I spent half the morning skiing on the one green run that was open, and then the rest of the morning my dad, brother, and I took on a blue run. In retrospect, I was NOT READY FOR A BLUE (see the next lesson learned), but I'm glad that I tried it.

In skiing, as in life, it's important to take risks. I'm glad I tested my boundaries, and I'm glad I pushed myself beyond my comfort zone. It was terrifying, but I survived it, and feel more accomplished for having done it (even if I failed miserably). Which brings me to...

5. Everybody has to start (and fail) somewhere.
I was not. ready. for. a. blue. run.
I fell on ice, and slid away from my skis, and my brother had to drag me back to the snow.
I fell in the middle of the run, and had to drag myself over to the side of the slope so I didn't get run over by the MUCH more experienced skiers and boarders.
I fell on flat parts of the run.
I fell on steep parts of the run.
I  fell at least a dozen times, and because I have very little upper body strength, I had to take off my skis EVERY TIME I FELL, and put them back on again. I was exhausted.
At times, I gave up, and walked down part of the slope. I was absolutely terrified. I had an emotional breakdown at one point, and my poor, sainted father had to quite literally talk me down.

In skiing, as in life, failure is inevitable. But you have to start somewhere. You have to learn your limits, and accept them, and then pick yourself up and try again. You have to acknowledge the fear when it comes, and then let it go to move on. You have to know when to try something, and when to ask for help.  And, you have to be thankful for the people who are helping you on the journey (bless my dad and brother. A run that would have taken them 30 minutes took the three of us an hour and a half, and they stuck with me the whole way).

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Ultimately, we had a great time skiing. Even though it wasn't easy, it was such a fun and adventurous experience to wrap up 2015 and begin 2016. I'm so thankful that my family went on this journey together, and spent a happy Christmas in Vermont (even without snow!).

Monday, November 23, 2015

Gratitude Lesson #4: Good For the Soul

It's now been over five months since I moved to Charlotte; I really can't believe it. For the most part, this journey has been an overwhelmingly positive one - I am learning so many new things in my new job; I am forging strong connections with my colleagues; I am practicing pretty healthy work-life balance (especially compared to this time three years ago, when I was just starting my job in Indiana).

This last part has really been the key for me in this job. I burned out incredibly quickly in my first professional position, giving 100% of myself 100% of the time. The work took its toll, and within a year I was full of anxiety and stress constantly, with few friends and no life outside of work to speak of. Thankfully, I eventually learned my lesson, and my last year at IU was a positive one, with good social relationships and mental separation from my work. My success in FINALLY learning how to leave work at work, combined with my strong friendships, made my last year in Indiana a truly positive one, and as I accepted this job in Charlotte, I vowed to myself to practice good work-life balance.

Now I'm five months in, like I said, and boy oh boy has my resolve on this promise been tested and proven. In starting a new job, it's incredibly tempting to give of yourself fully - to work long hours, to show that you're truly a committed member of the team. I want to hang out with my new coworkers; I want to build relationships with my students; I want to show up at events to show my support of my new institution.

At the same time, I know myself. I know I need some walls up between my personal and professional. I know I need time at home to be me, to recharge and fill my bucket again. And I know I need a strong personal support system at work to add to the atmosphere of the office.

I am so thankful to have found a SOLID group of friends here at my new institution. We gathered in a piecemeal kind of way, but gather we did, and it has been good for my soul to have a reliable group of female friends who challenge me, support me, and generally make my life happier.

This past weekend, 6 of our group made our way up to Asheville for #MountainWeekend, an excursion we had been planning for three months. September and October were busy and stressful, as they always are (for me, almost to the point of being hellish). So since the calendar ticked over to November, I have been eagerly anticipating this weekend getaway.

Between the amazing sisterhood of these women - all of us with different jobs, different family lives, different backgrounds, different beliefs, yet all of us united in friendship and love - and the glory that is Asheville, NC and its surrounding countryside, the weekend was borderline perfection. We hot-tubbed, we ate and drank, we saw waterfalls and forests and lakes and mountains, we gossiped and gave advice, we explored the city. We had a ball, and it was JUST what I needed.

To top that, the weekend before this one, I made my way back to College Station for an Aggie football game with my best girlfriends from undergrad. You want to talk about happiness and joy, and feeling like I'm exactly where I belong? If so, get me to tell you about my weekend back in Texas. I just felt... whole. Complete.

As 2015 is winding toward its conclusion, I'm starting to reflect again on my One Word, "gratitude." There have been a lot of things I've been grateful for this year so far; some I've blogged about, and some have been experienced in the moment. But what I've been learning is that moments of joy are not to be taken for granted.

My heart and soul were SO happy these past two weekends, spending time with my old friends and deepening relationships with new ones. I was in places I love, with people I adore, respect, and trust, and I felt THANKFUL. I was thankful that I had places and people so dear to my heart, and I was thankful for the resources to be able to travel to these places to spend time with these people. I was thankful for being reminded of old memories, and I was thankful for the opportunity to create new ones. I felt thankful that I was living in the moment, and actively recognizing what a blessing my friends are. As the old saying goes, "Make new friends and keep the old; one is silver, and the other gold."

My friends are precious, precious jewels who I couldn't live without. If you're one of these friends, know I love you more than words can say, and I'm thankful for your presence in my life.

Tuesday, November 26, 2013

A Week of Thankfulness #2: Home

In the spirit of the holidays beginning, and Thanksgiving being in TWO DAYS, I've decided that this week, I'm going to blog every day about something that I'm thankful for. Yesterday, I talked about sisterhood; today, I want to talk about home.

I really like the multiple definitions of home, as defined by good ol' dictionary.com:
1. a house, apartment, or other shelter that is the usual residence of a person, family, or household.
2. the place in which one's domestic affections are centered.

If you think about #1, I suppose my home now is Bloomington, IN, and for that, I'm thankful, although it's strange to think that my "usual residence" is no longer in the state of Texas. In fact, the place I consider my hometown, where I lived full-time for 10 years and part-time for 6--S'nangelo (San Angelo for the uninitiated)--isn't even the place I return for the holidays anymore, considering my parents moved to a different city (and different state) around the same time I did last year. But, I'm thankful for the 16 years that San Angelo gave me, and I'm VERY thankful for the year and half that Bloomington has given me, especially as it has meant full-time, gainful, awesome employment. Bloomington is a COOL town, and IU is a COOL place, and I'm thankful for my "usual residence," even though it's somewhere new (and winter is a new thing for me).

I've also called a few other places my "usual residences"--College Station, TX, for a magical 4 years, and Tallahassee, FL, for a fantastic 2 years. I'm thankful for all those cities did for me and gave to me; they were pretty cool towns to call home.

Now, though, we're approaching into the territory covered by definition #2, and I love the way that dictionary.com phrases this--"the place in which one's domestic (familial) affections are centered." Even though my hometown isn't my "place of usual residence" anymore, I still have MANY domestic affections centered in The Wool and Mohair Capital of the World (that is a real nickname, y'all). San Angelo will always be my hometown; reppin' the 325 'til I die (forgive me).

Then, there's College Station, TX, a place where my familial affections find their epicenter, thanks to the Aggie Family. Being a Former Student of Texas A&M University means the world to me, and I am SO thankful for the values that Aggieland instilled in me. My heart beats a little faster when I drive down Highway 6, headed for a beautiful place that I'll always call home.

In an unexpected turn of events, Tallahassee, FL (and, more specifically, Florida State University) became home for me during my time in graduate school. Especially in my coworkers, my students, and my cohort-mates, I found a new place to center my domestic affections. FSU is a special place, and the Higher Ed program (and the LifeNet) have become my home and family more than I could have ever predicted. I'm thankful for the work that the professionals and students at that school do, and I'm thankful for the confidence that I gained during my time in Talla-classy that prepared me for my current home and position.

Finally, here's the real crux of this post--I'm thankful for the people who exist in my life who give me places to "center my familial affections." There's my extended family who live ALL over the country (and world), but especially in DFW, who give me a chance to call those places my home. There's all my best friends who, again, live all over the country, giving me more "homes" than I can count. In fact, this Thanksgiving, I get to call Austin, TX my home, thanks to several of my best friends from college.

That's the real beauty of home, I think--it exists wherever your family exists. And I'm thankful for my family and friends, who give me a reason to find home wherever they are. In the end, the old saying is true--home IS where the heart is.

So, for my family and friends--you are my heart, and my home, and I'm thankful for you!

Thursday, October 17, 2013

Musings on an October Day

Sometimes, one gets the urge to write, and so one must indulge oneself, no matter if one's thoughts are cohesive. (One also occasionally sounds like the Queen of England. We are not amused.)

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It's FINALLY feeling like fall in Indiana, and Mother Nature isn't the only one dealing with changes. It seems as if everything is in flux right now, but not necessarily in a bad way. I've made a few life changes on my own account for which I'm VERY proud of myself:
FIRST: I started taking a modern dance class once a week. It is the day when I leave work at 5 p.m. like normal people do, and it is the day when I pretend to be Jody Sawyer from Center Stage and just dance my little heart out (regardless of my feet!).
SECOND: I was invited, accepted, and initiated into Gamma Phi Beta sorority as an alumna initiate, and I couldn't be happier about my new sisterhood. I am thrilled to join a long history of women who believe in inspiring "the highest type of womanhood," and I am already so impressed by the alumnae and undergrads that I've met who are now my sisters. I can't wait to get more involved with the chapter here at IU, and to get to fully experience being a Greek!
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Work continues apace. I am in the midst of my second year as a professional at IU, and my fourth year (SO weird to think about) in a student affairs role as a para/professional. On the one hand, there are moments when I am 1000% confident in who I am as a colleague and advisor; I relish the times when I (finally) know an answer to a student's question or when I am able to provide historic or institutionally contextual perspective to a discussion. I'm expanding my network and deepening my friendships on campus, and I'm FINALLY feeling like a Bloomington "townie." On the other hand, and I have been assured that I am NOT alone in this, there are moments when the dreaded "impostor syndrome" still plagues me, and when I feel like I have been working at this job for a little over a month instead of a little over a year. Thankfully, I have a supportive supervisor and encouraging colleagues, and so I strive to make it through each week a little wiser and a little more equipped professionally.
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Nerd Alert: the GREAT news is that I'm getting the chance to take part in some awesome professional development opportunities this fall - not only is IU hosting this year's Indiana Student Affairs Association Drive-In Conference (yay day-long pro.dev.!), I also had a presentation proposal accepted at an upcoming regional conference in Ohio! ACUI, one of my professional organizations (the Association of College Unions-International, for those of you who are curious), is hosting my region's conference in a couple of weeks, and I'll be presenting on how to talk with and teach college students about fiscal responsibility in programming (using my own students as a case study). Yeah, I know, I'm a big nerd. But I really like my job and my students are really smart, and I can't not brag on them! I'm also excited to get to talk with other professionals in the midwest about the work they're doing, and see if I can't get some really great ideas to bring back here to our Union.
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I'm getting the travel bug again. It happens every couple of months, so I'm right on schedule. While the bug will be partially satiated by the aforementioned conference in Ohio, I'll REALLY be getting my travel fix for Thanksgiving, when I get to make a grand return to the motherland for some turkey with good friends and another best friend's WEDDING festivities! (Which will be held at The Salt Lick. Yes, you may indulge in jealousy, while I indulge in delicious barbecue.)
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I realize, at the end of all this, that it's like a newsletter for my life. But I really have gotten the blogging itch today, and I realized that it's been two and a half months since I last updated this blog, and so I felt some routine life updates were in order. I've been pondering some deeper issues that will hopefully become blog posts sooner rather than later, but in the meantime, I wanted to put it out to the universe that I'm alive and pretty darn content with life.
(As a treat for making it all the way to the end of this post, you now get to watch what must rank as one of the cutest videos of all time. You're welcome.)

Tuesday, July 2, 2013

"It Might Be a Quarter-Life Crisis...

...or just a stirring in my soul." - John Mayer

Happy July, everybody! It's a gorgeous 70-degree day here in Indiana, and I would apologize to those of you who are dealing with hotter heat on this July day, but I feel like living through 23 summers of 100+ degree weather entitles me to a little smugness on a gorgeous day like this. :)

I find myself in a reflective mood today, and for a multitude of reasons. It's now July, and summer, for all intents and purposes, is winding down. The new fiscal year has started (holla back, all my fellow budget managers!), our office is wrapping up a search for a new colleague (I can't believe it's been almost a year since I was experiencing such a search myself!), and our students return from their holidays and travels in about a month and a half.

This, my first summer on the job, has proved to be a wonderfully restorative one. My supervisor, student leaders, and I have taken time to take stock, discuss goals for the coming year, and really enjoy the 9-5 grind of this office (as opposed to our late-night grind during the school year). In addition, I have travels up ahead to take time off from work: in about 27 hours I'll be flying out to Portland, Oregon, to see some of my best friends and to celebrate my birthday (see below for more on that), and then in a few weeks I'm making an extended trip down to my homeland - the great state of Texas - to celebrate some dear friends getting married. Summer travels are my favorite, and I can't wait to put this summer's trips on the books.

Another reason I find myself reflective at this point in the summer, as I alluded to above, is that it's almost my birthday! (In lieu of presents, dear friends, just come visit me in Bloomington. ;) ) I will be 25 years old this year (if you couldn't guess from my brilliant lyrical title), and the whole idea of a "quarter-life crisis" really has me thinking about where I am right now. This Buzzfeed article has been making the rounds among my peers on Facebook, and according to its purpose, it got me thinking about if I'm in the middle of my "quarter-life crisis."

And I can honestly say...I'm not. (yet, anyway. I'm still kickin' it at 24! :) )

But seriously, all the anxiety and questions that psychologists say come along at this point in my life - who am I, why am I here, what am I doing, and so on - happened at this exact point LAST YEAR. Ya know, that whole job search thing really got me pondering the deep questions of life. Was it a good idea to go to grad school? Is higher education the right field for me? Was it smart to pick up and move halfway across the country?  Will I EVER be able to manage my own budget? (The jury's still out on that one, folks...) Will I be FOREVER ALONE?

A year later, I still don't know all the answers, but I know that I'm exactly where I'm supposed to be. I've got faith that God is using me to His (and my) best purpose where I am right now. I've got some of the best friends and family that a girl could ever ask for, and those numbers are growing day by day and week by week. I really, really do like my job a whole, whole lot; even on the days when it seems like things are going to hell in a handbasket (and they happen MUCH more often than I'd like), I know that my students and I are learning invaluable things that are going to help us later on in life. I'm constantly learning, growing, and developing, and more than anything, I'm THANKFUL.

I'm thankful for almost 25 pretty solid years on this earth, and I can't wait for 75 more. (Ya know, one has to assume that "quarter-life" refers to the fact that I'm going to live to be 100... I'll take it.)

So I wish everyone a HAPPY FOURTH OF JULY, and a FABULOUS mid-summer week. May all of you find joy in your days!

Friday, July 8, 2011

Snapshots of Life

Do you ever have times in your life where you stop and think, “This is a moment, one to capture and remember”? Well, I feel like the luckiest girl in the world, because this weekend was full of moments for me, moments that seemed like a still from a movie or a paragraph from a novel, and yet they were real and fun and will never be forgotten!

Because these moments are like photographs, captured in a freeze frame, that’s how I’m going to share them with you; as still-life scenes. But, to give you a little bit of background, this past weekend I went down to what we in the South call “Nawlins”—the Crescent City, New Orleans! I visited a friend from A&M, David, and experienced all the city has to offer. And if you’ve ever heard any stories, read any books, or seen any movies about New Orleans, then you’ll know exactly why these moments are so special—they capture the quintessential city; the joy of jazz and blues and live music and Creole culture and a city that does sleep, but only in the daytime. (No wonder vampire legends have come out of NOLA—everyone sleeps all day and stays out all night!)

So without further ado, join me on my trip to and through Nawlins.

In the early evening on Friday I finally exited the main thoroughfare of I-10 (which up until that point had been pine trees, pine trees, and more pine trees, as anyone who has driven I-10 through Florida, Alabama, and Mississippi could tell you) and headed South. All of a sudden, I came across a giant expanse of water, Lake Ponchartrain, and knew I was getting close. My GPS showed me driving over islands among the lake, all interconnected by the Interstate. Finally, as I drove up and over more of the bridge, I saw the Crescent City laid out in front of me, sprawling by the shores of the Mississippi. I was hot (even through the air conditioning of my car), I was tired from driving 6 hours, but all of a sudden I got a race of adrenaline—I made it to New Orleans.

David lives near the Tulane campus, in and around the area called “Uptown,” where the houses are eclectic (but all seem to have wrought iron SOMEWHERE on them) and the streets are shaded by giant oak trees and blooming crepe myrtles. At one point my first evening there, we took the streetcar (no, it wasn’t named Desire) down St. Charles Avenue, watched all the mansions go by, and laughed about the Mardi Gras beads hung EVERYWHERE—over the streetcar wires, all over telephone poles, and even in the stately old oak trees. It’s Mardi Gras year-round in NOLA!

A lot of our trip became about the phrase “When in Rome,” which we amended to “When in NOLA.” First things first when I got to NOLA, I needed Cajun food, and I needed to see the French Quarter, ASAP. We drove to the riverfront and parked near the Jax Brewery, and then we began walking through the French Quarter, where, all of a sudden, I had my first encounter with Bourbon Street. I won’t go into detail about a lot of the things I saw as we walked along, but my impression was of crowds of joyful people, lots of smells (good and bad), and neon everywhere. To sum up, I can truly say that the people-watching along Bourbon is the best in the world, hands-down. We ate dinner at Felix’s Oysterhouse, where I had the best crawfish etouffee I’ve ever had, and then we went back to Bourbon to grab a drink. Soon David’s roommate and a mutual friend met us out for the night, and we enjoyed the live music (not only did we request some songs from the Tropical Isle Bar’s in-house band, we also got to experience Pat O’Brien’s dueling pianos!) and, again, the best people watching in the whole world.

Saturday was the day to truly experience the Quarter. We began with lunch on Bourbon Street, of course, and people-watched our way through some delicious cheesesteak. We walked through the French Market and looked at all the wares for sale. Seriously, everything exists there, from fresh seafood to Cajun spices to Venetian masks to Mardi Gras beads—anything you could think of to make your stay in “Nawlins” more enjoyable. We walked along the Mighty Mississippi riverfront and watched the steamboats go by, and then made the stop I was waiting for—Café du Monde.

Café du Monde was one of the most perfect moments during my time in NOLA. The Café is New Orleans’s premiere beignet shop. If you don’t know what a beignet is, it’s hard to describe except that it’s HEAVEN. But really, it’s a French pastry (a little larger than a donut hole and with an almost cake-like consistency) that’s topped with mounds of powdered sugar. Like I said, Heaven. Café du Monde is also famous for its café au lait, which I got frozen (because of the extreme heat—and I complain about Tallahassee’s humidity; NOLA was a million times worse). Café du Monde was one of my quintessential New Orleans moments, made even better by the street band serenading everyone, who started to play—bet you can’t guess—“When the Saints Go Marching In.” It was like something out of a story! (Or out of “The Princess and the Frog.”)

After the Café we walked across the street to Jackson Square, home of some of the best street artists in the world, a gaggle of fortune tellers and entertainers, and the beautiful St. Louis Cathedral, where we enjoyed the quiet serenity of an old church (and its air conditioning!). After that we braved a voodoo shop or two (you can’t go to New Orleans, ESPECIALLY the quarter, without at least exploring one of these shops. But don’t touch ANYTHING, just in case!).

On Sunday, after a typical Nawlins summer rainstorm, David and I decided to be real tourists and went to the Audubon Zoo! The ticket booth worker warned us that the animals might be hidden in their habitats because of the rain storm, but we decided to go anyway, and I’m glad we did. We saw lions, elephants, bears, a jaguar, giraffes, zebras, alligators (lurking in the “Louisiana Swamp” exhibit; very creepy), and even had a close encounter with a peacock just walking around the zoo! It was fun to be in a different part of the City, one much more family-oriented than Bourbon Street (you’d be surprised how many kids there were walking around the Quarter—NOLA isn’t exactly my idea of a family vacation!).

That evening, we met up with a mutual friend of ours, Kristina, and her family, who were all in the Crescent City for the Fourth of July. We went out to a lovely dinner in the Quarter, and then David, Kristina, and I went to Bourbon Street to grab a drink, listen to some live music, and catch up. That evening had more movie-moments, especially when everyone in the street—and I mean at least 50 people in the middle of Bourbon—broke into the Wobble.

Going to Nawlins really was like watching a movie, or reading a story. There were the tappers, the street musicians, and the artists, all trying to express themselves and earn a buck or two; there were the neon lights and lampposts of Bourbon Street; there were the wrought iron balconies and overflowing flower boxes of the French Quarter; there was delicious food and irresistible music and people just wanting to let go, have fun, and let the good times roll.

While on this trip, I was reminded of a few things. First, that I love exploring new places, especially ones with history. It was amazing to turn a corner and to see a building that had stood for 300 years (and especially the ones that made it safely through Hurricane Katrina!). Another thing I realized, less about myself and more about the world, is that friends really can make a journey special. It was wonderful to spend some quality time with my friend David, who I hadn’t spent more than an hour with since I graduated from A&M, and it was great to catch up with our friend Kristina as well, and to all experience the city together. Although I would enjoy traveling by myself, it was also nice to be able to rely on friends, especially David, who has lived in the city for about a month and has picked up on how a lot of things work in the City.

I’m especially thankful for my journey because, after such a full and busy weekend, my homecoming to quiet Tallahassee was especially sweet. I met up with fellow Florida State employees to cook out and watch the fireworks for the Fourth of July. We played tailgate games and sang patriotic songs and “ooh”ed and “aah”ed with the best of them. Coming back to Tallahassee felt right and restful, and sleeping in my own bed was just beautiful. Even though I went to a new and exotic town, another sweet memory and snapshot was waiting for me right at home.

Wednesday, June 29, 2011

It Keeps You Runnin'

Good morning, readers! Another summer day is upon us, but with prospects of a LONG and HAPPY Fourth of July weekend ahead, this week is just flying by.

To tell the truth, this SUMMER is flying by. With Florida State's Orientation officially over (hooray!), my year with the Student Alumni Association is officially over, and my feelings are definitely bittersweet. I learned so much in that assistantship, and am thankful for the relationships I built and the skills I gained. Even though I'll miss it at times, I have so much to look forward to--I have started an internship with the Career Center here at FSU, working with the Garnet and Gold Scholar Society, and then the second week of August I begin a NEW assistantship for my second year in grad school with the Student Activities Center!

In the meantime, I'm also taking time for me and looking forward to some personal things; namely, at the end of July, I'll be attending (as a bridesmaid :)) the wonderful wedding of my college roommate/best friend, Sarah, and her fiance/my friend Chris. This wedding will not only be a time to celebrate their relationship and bright future together, but it's also the ONLY time I'll be returning to Texas this summer and an opportunity to be reunited with some of my best friends from undergrad!

Like I said, I'm a bridesmaid for this wedding (my first time as an attendant! I'm pumped!), and I know there will be LOTS of pictures taken, so needless to say, I'm being completely shallow and decided that I want to make sure I grace the pictures with the greatest of photogenic ease. On top of that, I've been feeling like a lazy bum lately, and so this weekend I decided that the time had come for me to bring working out (running, mostly) back into my life. Ever since I improved my lifestyle and learned to be healthier last summer, I've noticed a change in the way I feel physically AND emotionally. I liked the way I looked, I liked the way I felt, and I liked the way I felt about how I looked (does that make sense? It does to me).

This spring semester was challenging, and unfortunately, part of that challenge was me LOSING aspects of my self-care such as exercising, and just plain feeling lousy. But luckily, with the motivation of this wedding looming ahead, and the unexpected partnership and participation of my cohort buddy Jason, it's time to get back into shape!

This past Sunday, Jason and I were discussing how we missed working out and how we wished we could find the motivation to do it. All of a sudden, we realized--what if we ran TOGETHER? We'd not only have a buddy to keep us motivated, we'd also have someone to keep us accountable and to kick each other's butt when we needed it. So Monday evening we embarked upon our first run, and I think our routine is going to be a resounding success. We run on a track, and so we warm up with 2 laps (half a mile), run one mile straight through (4 laps), and then cool down with 2 more laps, bringing it to 2 miles total.

I know that all the fitness experts say you're supposed to work out with a buddy, but really, listen to them. When my legs want to quit towards the end of our third lap, seeing Jason keeping pace out of the corner of my eye helps me round the next corner and keep moving. Our goal is to eventually be able to run 3 miles straight through by the time school starts, and I think we can do it. We have each other to keep motivated, and to compliment each other when we notice how in-shape we feel :)

So look out, world! I'm back in the running business, and I'm coming to get you. Granted, my legs feel like jello first thing when I wake up in the morning, but I can already tell a difference in my mood (endorphins are the BEST) and how well I'm sleeping (although my mom has always said I could sleep through a tornado, so I don't know how different that is). Soon to follow: world domination. And by the world, I mean Jason's and my little corner of the track. But I think that's enough to start with!